We are a playing family, always have been. For the most part we enjoy hanging out together. From the time our kids were small, we took every opportunity to play together. We never spent much money, but it was important to me that we build those family memories. I love the fun we have together, and is one of the best ways to connect with my children, especially now that they are grown. Any reason to skip housework....I am all over that.
PUT AWAY THE PHONES (unless, of course, you are doing something together...which we have found a few of those too).
Why is this so important? In an article by Mark A Widmer and Stacy T. Taniguchi, it says, "Our free time should be used wisely to create the best possible life, to promote individual growth and strengthen families. Meaningful recreational does not just happen; it must be prepared for, cultivated and privately defended. In general, we spent an inordinate amount of time with electronic media and, as a result, become disconnected from one another. We have lost vital and nourishing connections to nature; many of us do not exercise, are overweight and work too much. We suffer from depression, anxiety, and discontent. Wholesome family recreation can help us strengthen our relationships and reduce negative emotional and spiritual consequences. Wholesome recreation strengthens families.
The best times in my life are with these people. And, in case you are wondering, my husband is generally the photographer, and I realize how few pictures I actually have with him in them; I will have to work on that. We may not always get along or decide on what we do, but I LOVE these people and look forward to many more happy experiences with them.
